nanherlihen

My insights on life and a happy workplace

Capture the Moment – Take More Photos January 10, 2012

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A perpetual New Year’s resolution for me is to take more photos.

 

I was at a funeral this morning of a wonderful soul who passed away last week of cancer leaving a loving young family behind. A photographic tribute was prepared for the service and although it ensured that there was not a dry eye in the house it so wonderfully captured the images of a life lived.

 

The smiles, the emotions, the milestones, the significant events, the family moments shared, all captured in photos. Each photo capturing for all time the image that our minds eye can forget or change over time.

 

I held back the tears as I saw images of smiles and good times which highlighted the stark reality of a life now lost, but took great comfort in knowing that these photos would someday soon (if not already) be a comfort. A comfort because the smile that we fear we will forget or may have trouble recalling will always be there, with a memory, in a photo.

 

I hope that Maria’s family take comfort in their photos and that they look back on them over time and remember the good times and smile fondly. May they always remind them of her beautiful smile and kind heart.

 

Life is there to be lived and shared.

 

Life is too short to squander.

 

Life is made of memories and moments.

 

Photos can capture moments so lets all take more photos.

 

Goodbye REM – 2011 in Review (According to Nan that is…) December 30, 2011

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As we get ready to bring in the New Year you can’t help but reflect on the one that has just been. I can’t believe how quickly 2011 has come and gone. A fast paced year filled with laughs, lessons, experiences and a sad good bye.

 

Its been a challenging year at work. People still never fail to amaze me both good and bad and as I continue to learn more and more about people everyday, I hope that the lessons I have learned in 2011 will equip me  in 2012 with patience, understanding and courage. Patience to keep me level, understanding to see as others do and courage to say it like it is with respect.

 

2011 saw me embrace social media and its possibility – such an inspiring space with unlimited potential. So many amazing and inspiring people who have guided me – namely my Suzie Q and David Hood. I hope that you will all embrace social media in 2012. Don’t let pre conceived notions deter you from experiencing the wonder and power of social media.

 

I hit the road and travelled again in 2011. Almost 20 years since my first travel adventure (backpacking through Europe) I ventured  back to London to be with my best bud days after the birth of her first born. Distance is no obstacle when true friendship and significant life events are involved. I am thankful to my family for allowing me the indulgence. A special thank you also to G who took time out of his implementation schedule to show me the sights of London. A real lesson in keeping things in perspective – work is important but its not the most important.

 

I finally started my correspondence study and have given myself a target of 3 years to complete my Diploma (I’m not very good at correspondence so must learn the discipline in the coming year!).

 

My little boy has started talking and communicating with him this year has been uplifting. Children are so innocent and the way they communicate can teach us so much. Fearless in their interpretation and abundant with imagination we always have loads to learn from children. Many laughs have been had with my son as he grasps the use of the English languages. I am looking forward to his insights in 2012.

 

One of the saddest moments of 2011 was REM’s announcement that they were calling it a day. For those of you who know me well, you understand the significance of this and my love of their music. From the moment I was introduced to REM they have been an inspiration and feature in many of my memories through life. Even though they are no longer making music they have left us with over 30 years of inspirational music that I am sure will comfort me for many years to come – true love never dies. So I could be cliche and say it’s the end of the world as we know it (and in a way it is) but instead I’m going to point out that  its an opportunity to find the next band that will help me make new memories.

 

Overall, although busy and challenging I have survived 2011 and have had some fun times along the way. Thank you to all my friends and family who have shared 2011 with me.

 

I wish everyone a happy New Year filled with laughter, good friends, good health, opportunity, music for the soul and social media. May your 2012 resolution be to have fun!

 

I leave you with my inspiration for 2012 from the one and only REM (of course) – Make my make believe believe in me… just be in 2012 and may only good things come your way.

 

Pork Chop Season November 15, 2011

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Well we are at the half way mark of what I have labelled Pork Chop Season and true to form the “Pork Chops” are out and about.

So what is Pork Chop Season I hear you ask?

I have been in HR for many years and have observed a phenomenon that occurs at the end of the year and peaks in November that I have labelled Pork Chop Season.  It is the period where we are tired, out of patience and feel as though the end of year break just can’t come quickly enough. It’s when all the unrealistic deadlines culminate and it feels as though it just all has to get done now!

With all the pressures and no patience in reserves we start to see the ugly side of humanity.

I would suggest that unless we acknowledge the phenomenon of Pork Chop Season, that we are all capable of unleashing the “Pork Chop” within.

I have compiled some tips to help us all in the midst of Pork Chop Season –

  • Readjust
    If you feel the pressure of culminating deadlines know that everything doesn’t stop at the end of the year, life keeps on going, you can readjust. Learn the art of planning in the new year.
  • Take a breath
    Take a breath before you have a meltdown or have a go at someone. Remember that your patience levels are depleted, taking a breath may avoid the regrettable venture into “Pork Chop” behaviour.
  • Be understanding
    Understand that everyone is probably in the same boat and that behaving like a “Pork Chop “ will not necessarily reap any rewards, rather it will perpetuate the phenomenon.
  • Be positive
    Smile and focus on the positive, it’s infectious.

I hope you find my tips are helpful and I hope that you are surviving Pork Chop Season. With a bit of luck, if we spread the word, we could help to eliminate Pork Chop Season all together by being supportive, positive and nice to each other everyday of the year.

 

A Scientist’s Smile October 17, 2011

Today the NHMRC announced it’s successful grant recipients for 2012 and I was lucky enough to be present when one of our scientists was given the news that they were successful.

I was fortunate enough to be present and what I witnessed was inspiring. A normally reserved individual who is normally observed looking focused and quite serious now beamed with pride. The smile was moving and his eyes told of his excitement at the news. You could tell he was relieved to know that his work could continue. He had just been acknowledged by his peers and received continued funding, funding that would support and ensure that his exceptional work could continue. His lab in fact had achieved the perfect result of 3 out of 3 grants, a fact that kept that smile beaming all that much longer.

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Absolute Beginner – Hello world! October 14, 2011

Welcome to my blog – I am new to this world of blogging so I will just have to learn as I go.

I have many interest and will highlight these as I go. I also hold many observations that I will also share.

I guess it will be anything goes!

I am an HR Manager who is currently studying a Diploma in Counselling and hoping to bring my human resource skill to the discipline of workplace counselling and career guidance and coaching. I believe everyone has a right to be happy at work and to find what makes them happy. If I can help them find what makes them happy I too will be happy. Life is to short and we spend too long at work to be unhappy.

So stay tuned and enjoy the ride. I welcome your input.

Until next time I leave you with one of my greatest passions – music. On topic I leave you with David Bowie’s Absolute Beginners, quite fitting for my first blog.